It is very scary for a puppy to go down the stairs and it takes a long time for them to get the nerve to try. Several times a day the dogs parade through the kitchen door, turn the corner, and go down the steps to the big back yard. The puppies excitedly follow the elders until they get to that first step. They want to be big kids but they hesitate. I am not really sure how long it will be until they master this.Going down is scarier than going up.
The little ones get disappointed when they are left behind on the deck, so Gus often hurries back to be with them. He is the "quiet uncle" compared to our noisy Charlie, but very attentive with the pups.
Do you think that it is harder for people to go down versus going up? I do.
Perhaps for people (and for dogs) going down requires more trust with each step. We must be assured that the placement of our feet is safe and secure so that we will not fall. It feels that we have less control with the descent and that we must contemplate our movements.
When we take steps and climb it is all about completing the task. We will get to the top and to our destination. Every climb is a subconscious goal and a small victory when finished.
I volunteer at a local food bank and each week I interview the clients and do the data intake on our computer. I am blessed to be the voice that can reassure the clients, especially the new ones. I get to be one of the first to meet them and welcome them to our nonprofit. We want our neighbors to know that we care and we are happy to serve. I enjoy this time and respectfully try to make a difference and make it matter.
New clients are often fearful when they come to us- the first time. There is already a lot of stress in their lives before they walk through the doors and something new can be intimidating. Anxiety over a job loss or a health problem creates a vulnerability and sometimes despair. They do not feel safe or secure and they feel like they may fall again. This emergency can feel like a step down or backwards and is depressing.
Whether we step into a food bank (or down some scary stairs) we have to trust that this fear will pass. We can master all of the ups and downs in our lives with help from our faith, family and friends. Whether trivial like the puppy skills that Carson and Lil Blacky are mastering or serious like fleeing domestic violence, all require action and prayer.
Please Lord, remind me that when I go up or when I go down - you are always there with me. Each movement and each day is in your glory and I am humbled by your mercy and love. Please help me with my steps and please help me when I fall.
I can learn to be brave with your help.
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